UPDATED 2.10.21
After receiving a couple messages from women that think it is wrong for me to even question why a woman stops having sex with her husband I decided to do a blanket response.
Ladies,
So many of you ladies wanted me to know that you stopped having sex with your husband because he was a jerk.
This is all the excuse a woman needs it seems. But let me challenge you ladies. If your husband is a jerk when you dont fuck him how about try fucking him for a month what do you have to lose? Most likely he will be in a much better mood. In my opinion.
I still had sex regularly with my husband, despite the physical and mental abuse I endured for many year.
If you are so unhappy that you discontinue intimacy why not leave? It’s not fair to decide someone else is going to stop being touched, hugged, kissed and loved. It’s not just sex its intimacy. That’s what you signed up for when you said yes to his proposal.
If you dont want to leave you should fuck your husband any time he wants. Think about it. What’s the easiest way to keep a man happy? Blow jobs on demand, anyone? Yep, I said it.
It doesn’t have to be blow jobs, unless that’s what he likes. Maybe it’s what you like too.
If you arent going to leave you shouldn’t quit on the relationship. Isnt it uncomfortable when you know he needs you and you just ignore him? That’s cruel. It’s almost impossible to be, be happy if the person you live with isnt. Think about it. It might take 30 minutes and guess what, he wants to make you enjoy it too. Let go and enjoy him touching, rubbing and even fucking you. Its amazing. If you want it tell him. He loves you and you are sexy to him. So stop punishing yourself and fuck your husband.
I promise if you do the only thing that can happen is you both are happier.
Ever wish your relationship was exciting like it was in the beginning? All you have to do is start being intimate again. Isnt that what’s different? Be spontaneous and make sure he knows it’s okay to be spontaneous too. This is your husband, go for it.
No excuses, so what you’re heavier and dont feel as sexy, get over it. He wants to fuck you. You have a health condition? Well unless you are dying…start living. As a matter of fact even if you are dying if it’s possible enjoy it. It might be your last chance. It could be his last chance with you. Don’t deprive yourself or him of that.
He wants to go down on you by god let him. Actually tell him he isnt getting any kitty if he won’t kiss her hello first. Make sure you get to orgasam because getting you off turns him on more than anything anyway. So you get off and he thoroughly enjoys it, win win.
If women did that I would barely have enough clients to pay my electric bill.
True Story!! So enjoy the power you have to be happier, and make your husband happier too. He will seem like less of an asshole while he is licking your pussy I promise.
I wish more women thought like you. Us men who are sexless cause of sheer spite of the female just want to feel loved or wanted. Not asking for a porn orgy just passion, the feeling of being wanted. Giving a woman a feeling of euphoria is a extreme turn on for some men. We would love to eat at the Y at your request daily if needed.
Thanks for being upfront and truthful in blog.
Could not agree more! It’s as if it has become a chore that needs to happen, like cleaning the fridge out and scrubbing it clean. You know you’re supposed to do and if you did more often it wouldn’t be as bad but you keep finding excuses.