I’m a provider but you can call me a prostitute if you want. I am not ashamed of what I do. I AM A SEX WORKER and that is what prostitutes do.
You use that word or any other awful name you think describes people like me like a weapon. Something to put me in my place but my place might be closer to you than you want to believe.
I do business with clients not John’s and I don’t have a pimp.
Yes, some of us struggle with addiction but addiction can be found in all professions. The good news is they can and do recover. It’s not for you to pass judgment.
We call ourselves providers because we provide a much needed service. That service isnt to perverts or sex crazed men but to good upstanding people in the community. Our clients are fathers, sons, brothers, uncles and your friends.
Dont call us sluts, we might like it. We are mothers, daughters, aunts, sisters, and your friends. Yes many providers come from broken homes and some of us have daddy issues but that isn’t a despicable trait. Those experiences make us stronger. It definitely doesn’t make us unworthy of respect.
We dont do this job because we are too stupid to get a 9 to 5. Many leave high level positions to work solely as an provider. The work is much more rewarding. Bringing life back into a man’s life can be heart warming and the rewards both monetarily and mentally are never ending when a provider and client are properly matched.
Our clients aren’t too ugly to find a little action, most are married. They are handsome enough and successful enough to date but have enough sense and respect to know a girlfriend is a bigger betrayal. Girlfriends want to be wives one day. Which leads to jealousy and the girlfriend gets hurt. Hurt girlfriends often lash out by throwing the husband under the bus by informing his wife of the relationship. Now everyone is hurt. So girlfriends are far too risky.
Providers want their clients relationship to blossom. They hope to relieve the tension that inevitably occurs in marriages where intimacy is a thing of the past. Our clients love their wives unfortunately it’s all too common for women to lose interest in sex when husbands rarely do. Still, he doesn’t want to leave her, he just needs relief.
Intimacy is a need not a want for men. Women dont realize that. Providers give intimacy and their clients can drop the resentments and enjoy all the wonderful things about his partner.
Our clients provide for their families, spend time with their families and hold jobs in all the fields you think are above spending time with the likes of women like me.
So call us whatever makes you feel better about yourself and pray that you or a loved one does not ever find themselves in a position of have to when it comes to sex work but a position of Damn I’m Lucky.