The idea of being submissive in bed has always been a turn on to me but in this business, we are supposed to stay in control of the session at all times. So I figured I wouldn’t ever be able to explore my submissive side while on the clock. That is until today.
This afternoon I got a message from a gentleman requesting an appointment. He had obviously read my blog because he was straight to the point, respectful and informed. I always love when a client starts our first conversation with:
Hi, Joann, my name is _______ I am ____ year’s old and tells me his race and maybe his marital status. I would love to see you today and bring you one of the gifts on your wish list.
We set the appointment for 4 pm and he chose the hour session. When he arrived he was on time and requested that he jump in the shower as he had been working all day. I obliged and after he got out he came and laid on the bed completely nude.
Since sucking dick is a fetish of mine I immediately went for his dick. After a very few moments, he said oh slow that down. I said of course, you can pop more than once. I’m not rushing you I just love giving head. That is very clear he said.
Come up here and lay down and let’s talk he said. I laid next to him gently tickling him on his chest ever so lightly, as we spoke. He wanted to know what I enjoyed doing while in sessions and I told him, blow jobs, doggie…
He wanted to know what position I liked giving head in and I immediately mentioned doing it where he would be standing and I would be on my knees in front of him.
I admitted that I enjoyed that position because it seemed submissive and I had always found that smoking hot. Immediately he asked if I would like to explore submissiveness with him right now? Sure, I said without really thinking.
We didn’t get to fully explore my submissive side of course. There needs to be a certain amount of trust and that is just impossible at a first meeting.